From my experience being a victim of manipulation is damaging because it creates distrust to people as a whole. It makes it difficult to identify or recognize who really loves you and wants the best for you especially in a society where individualism is constantly promoted.

My reaction to gossip is that of not paying much attention to it. I figure that my decisions will always be criticized whether they are right or wrong so I try not to take it personal and use it more as a means to get closer to God through prayer.